Sistas are tired of spending Valentine’s Day, their birthday and many of the other holidays alone. Just yesterday, a good friend of mine informed me that she had taken her profile off all of the online dating list because she was having a hard time finding a “good” black man.
Boy, if I hear this again, I’m going to scream. My friends tell me that I do not understand because your married to a so called “good” black man and that I haven’t been in the dating game in 18 years.
The advice I give to them is don’t limit your possibilities. The world is a big place and if you can’t find a man of your own race, just go out there and find a “good” man. I often tell them that so called “good” men come in all different shapes, sizes and color.
I tell them that you do not have to be alone, it’s okay to date outside of our race. It was interesting to find this video that discusses the fact that an increasing number of Black women are dating and marrying interracially. Check out this video and let me know your thoughts….this subject can be a little controversial.
